Sensual massage – The basis for good sex

A great sensual massage is all about the experience and about the ambiance. Now is not the time for you to take your partner in a golden room filled with roses and exotic incense. This may work for some people, but for many this will be scary (especially if your love is a bit new).

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Here are some points to keep in mind:

Sensual massage – The basis for good sex #1 – Where will the person go to lie down?

Anyone who has had a massage on a massage table knows the difference it makes. The discomfort in the head that comes from leaving the head at a right angle for long periods of time can ruin a massage. However, there are plenty of ways to avoid this experience.

Make various furniture and pillow configurations until you find a setting that supports the head in its natural position without suffocating the face or stressing the neck. Try the position before the time of the massage and make sure that it allows your body to relax as much as possible.

Sensual massage – The basis for good sex #2 – Your hands

The most important aspect of a good sensual massage is the condition of your hand. You do not want cold hands or sweaty hot hands. Take care and make sure your hands are in good condition before proceeding.

If you want to leave your hand extra-super-soft, soak it in warm water for a few minutes, then dry and pass a mixture of sugar and cooking oil. When they are already soft, just wash and dry your hands and apply a lotion, it really makes a difference.

Sensual massage – The basis for good sex #3 – Clothes

Be aware that massages are always more successful on bare skin than on bulky clothes. If your pair is not comfortable enough to take off your clothing, you can ask again after a few minutes of working your magic. Also keep in mind that your clothing can irritate bare skin, and you should be aware of this when choosing which clothes to wear.

Sensual massage – The basis for good sex #4 – Positioning

Ask your partner to lie on a bed or a soft area. Kneel just over your butt and place your body weight on your hands that are doing the massage. In general, younger people will need less pressure than older or more muscular people.

The best thing to do is to start being kind, and gradually increase the pressure you are applying until you realize that the person actually seems to enjoy it. If she seems tense all the time, you’re probably pushing too hard. Remember to read your body language, you do not want to be too rough or too light, in the case of doubt, ask.

Sensual Massage – The Basis for Good Sex #5 – Using Your Hands and Your Body

When giving a massage, try to keep your hands well (but not overly) oiled. Whenever you give a massage, there are some important guidelines to follow. For example, it hurts when someone tries to massage your bones.

Try to find the softest parts and knead them in a smooth and rhythmic way. Good places to start are on either side of the spine or the back of the upper shoulder area. In general, simply avoid the bones, tendons, and major blood vessels. ALSO: It is important to avoid inadvertently pinching someone’s skin.

Sensual massage – The basis for good sex #6 – Where to start

Get your massage on the neck and shoulders, which are pretty neutral areas, and work your way down from there. As you move down, pay attention to the sides of the shoulders, the back of the arms and the hands.

When you have reached the lower back, be careful not to crush, and tell your pair not to hold their breath when you push that part. Continuing its downward progression, you can sometimes get a good response by gently but firmly massaging the sides and backs of the butt area.

Not everyone will like it, and you need to be careful to avoid hitting the pelvic bone, but it can actually be quite enjoyable. Finally, the feet are an important part of the massage.

Sensual massage – The basis for good sex #7 – Finishing

When you’re done, give the person a few minutes to relax. During this time you can gently wipe off any excess lubricant, lotion, and oil from your hands. Be sure to cover the person up to the shoulders after the massage and store your supplies. While it may never be good to question your massage, it can help you improve your skills dramatically if you receive any feedback that the person is willing to offer.

After the massage is done and your partner is relaxed, you can go to the preliminary stage, for that, click here.