Dating - Tips to achieve success and have better sex

Dating is not supposed to be a complicated thing, normally events occur in a natural and normal flow. However, there are some tips that can improve the quality of the relationship and especially the sex. So this article will focus on these tips.

Dating – Tips to achieve success and have better sex #1 – The Mindset You Should not Have

You probably get sex with the mentality and goal of “giving an orgasm.” It is this approach that leads many people into a chase to find the key techniques. This is the wrong mentality if you really want to “give” an orgasm. It sounds contradictory, I know. The problem is that this approach will create pressure on you and your partner that an orgasm should happen.

Once you add pressure to have an orgasm, it is virtually guaranteed that you will experience some negative stress and anxiety during your intimate moments together.
As this stress grows, it will actually make it much harder for you to reach orgasm.

Dating – Tips to achieve success and have better sex #2 – The Mindset You Must Have

Here’s the paradox, if you want to orgasm, you should not focus on orgasm. Instead of focusing on the goal of reaching an orgasm, begin to focus your attention on the pleasure of the process. The key is, if you focus on giving pleasure, and making sure she is feeling well, that orgasm will come.

Dating – Tips to achieve success and have better sex #3 – Communication

Not all techniques will work for every woman. A woman may prefer a particular movement or rhythm than another woman prefers. To find out what your woman really prefers, you have to open the lines of communication. You need to find out what she likes when you are applying a technique.

This way, you can optimize your pace, speed, etc. Communicating well with your partner can make it much easier to bring your pleasure, and ultimately better orgasms.

Dating – Tips to achieve success and have better sex #4 – Escalation

One of the biggest mistakes men make is moving too fast too soon. This works well for men, but for a woman, she may not be ready yet.

Men can reach an orgasm very quickly. Men basically need to get excited, stimulated, and done. Women, on the other hand, need a gradual climb to reach a point of orgasm. With each of the stages of sexual response, the intensity of the stimulation is increased.

Dating – Tips to achieve success and have better sex #5 – Anticipation and Tension

Anticipation (also known as “provocation” and “excitement”) is a powerful and effective tool to use. In order to multiply the effects of your sexual techniques, you will have to add anticipation in the mix. Anticipation will make the woman more aroused, give her a greater chance of having an orgasm, and focus her mind on the physical pleasure she is experiencing.

While you are raising the expectation, at the same time you are creating the sexual tension as well. Sexual tension will have to be released (in the form of an orgasm). The key to building anticipation is to focus on the areas surrounding the main “target” before actually reaching the target.

For example, you can do this by rubbing your inner thighs, buttocks, and hips before actually touching your vagina. While you are rubbing these parts of the body, it is getting wetter and moister, anticipating you to finally move to your vagina. At the same time, the tension is growing inside her and at some point, she will have to be released.

One note: when you are building anticipation into it, this will build on you as well. It will be your job to maintain self-control and keep climbing at the right pace.

Dating – Tips to achieve success and have better sex #6 – Relaxation

A woman has to be completely relaxed to have an orgasm. If she has her mind on her job, or whatever it is, she will not be relaxed. She will become tense, and her body will not allow her to release an orgasm.

What is the function of man? Help to make these problems disappear (even if only temporarily) with your words, touch, attitude and preparations. Your lover must be totally and completely relaxed and free of tension. The only tension she should be feeling is the sexual tension.